Know what you want. If it’s rare and valuable it won’t be easy to find, but never doubt that it exists. You exist, don’t you? If you weren’t rare and valuable, if you weren’t special, you wouldn’t even be looking. You would already have accepted less. You are just as hard to find. You are the treasure that someone else is searching for. You are the needle of delight in someone else’s haystack of disappointment. The challenging, meaningful experience that you deserve is being drawn to you too. Be patient, it may have a long way to travel.