Face your problems. Don’t hate yourself for being flawed. Consider what you were. You’ve changed. Hatred is always a skewed perspective, and you need to see things clearly. Love looks unflinchingly upon the horror of loss. Love walks unharmed across the jagged landscape of struggle and disappointment. Show yourself some love. You deserve it. Commitment requires courage and patience. Take the time to deal with your problems piece by piece. Transfer the energy of conflict into the momentum for progress.