Don’t be an asshole. Print
No. 414 / Don’t be an asshole.
Whether you feel fondness or shame for your past has nothing to do with how many mistakes you’ve made, but how you’ve reacted to them. Every pain you inflict upon the outside world gouges out your inner wounds a little more. What sounds harder? Sorting out your momentary vulnerability and embarrassment, or sifting through the rubble of a relationship that’s been destroyed forever? Apologies are a courtesy, not a cure. If you want things to get better, you have to stop making them worse.
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From truth, purpose; from purpose, fulfillment. The truth is that this life is a struggle, it’s a contest. Your purpose is to use up every bit of your potential participating in life. You are called to face a challenge. Accept it with dignity. From contending—perhaps to be injured, certain to be hurt—you will find a respect for yourself that can be attained nowhere else. From enduring the struggle, you will learn the true value of compassion and a proper use of your power.
These things cannot be given, they must be earned. We offer you this, and nothing more: the light of old wisdom to guide your steps, and the fruits of our experience to nourish you on your journey.
Happiness isn’t a reward. Strength isn’t gained without effort. Love isn’t something you get from someone else. Life is made bearable in the bearing of it. The meaning of life reveals itself when you stop looking for it and start living with sincerity. Fulfillment will come at last when you have given all that you have.
We want that for you.